Each month we publish an article which represents a new opportunity to focus on your personal and professional development to support your studies, work and life. In this article we would like to introduce to you an exercise called the ‘Circle of Control, Influence and Concern’ to support you when you’re studying and have lots of things to do and think about.
Circle of Control, Influence and Concern
We can often spend many minutes, hours or even days dwelling upon things we can’t control. An excessive focus on the factors we can’t control, while neglecting to think about the things we are able to change, can lead to overwhelm. We might feel out of control and have decreased confidence – all of which can impact our studies.
If you want to regain control in your studies or life and feel more effective, it can help to look at the situation or issue and break things down into what you can or can’t control.
Stephen Covey’s “Circle of Concern, Circle of Influence” looks at where we focus our time and energy and can help us to work on the things we can do something about, rather than worry or be concerned about the things we can’t influence or control. It’s important not to expect that we can control things that aren’t actually totally under our control – often far easier said than done!
So how does it work…
- The Circle of Control represents everything we have total control over.
- The Circle of Influence represents everything we have some control of or we can affect things somehow.
- The Circle of Concern represents everything that troubles or concerns us. We don’t have any or very little control or influence over these issues.
You can read more about this in Stephen Covey’s book ‘The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People’ – access the e-book here via the OU Library
You can use this approach to help you when:
- You feel anxious or start getting worried over external events, to help you change your mindset to focus on things within your control.
- You feel overwhelmed to start identifying your focus and priorities. It will allow you to stay focused on what’s important to you.
- You experience anything unplanned or uncontrollable to simply focus on what you can influence and control.
There are a number of benefits to being able to identify and concentrate on your circle of control. It can support you to adopt helpful beliefs and attitudes about events and take positive action in pursuit of a worthwhile goal as well as:
- Increasing your focus on your thoughts, word and actions
- Increasing your productivity by limiting your distractions
- Developing your self-confidence
- Developing a positive mind-set
- Improving your mental well-being
Here’s a short four step activity to help you…
Make a list of all the ‘things’ that occupy your mind. These could be things you are thinking about, things you have to do, worries or problems.
Have a look at the diagram and information below.
Circle of Control (total control)
Worries/issues I can control and therefore do something about
My work ethic/commitment levels
Circle of Influence (some control)
Worries/issues I can influence
How others see me
Other people’s choices
Other people’s actions
Other people’s thoughts
Where I work
Circle of Concern (no control)
Worries/issues I cannot control or influence
World events/threat of war/Covid-19
Where you were born
The media/social media
Drawing the diagram out, look at your list and then place each item in one of the three areas. In the centre if you have control, in the inner ring if you have some control or influence, and in the outer ring of the circle if you have no control or influence.
Reflect on where you have placed all the things on your list and ask yourself the following questions:
- What is interesting or surprising about what you see?
- Do any of your circles have noticeably more or fewer items in them than the others?
- Which were easiest to think of answers for?
- Which circles do you tend to think about the most when you’re feeling concerned or overwhelmed?
- How has this exercise helped you?
- Is there anything in the ‘influence’ circle/ring you can move to the ‘control’ circle/ring?
- What will you do differently now as a result of completing this exercise?
- What action(s) will you take in the next couple of days?
You can use this as a visual self-coaching tool to support your studies and see where you’re spending your time and energy. You don’t have to try to ignore the items in your outer circle (circle of concern), instead acknowledge them and then focus on the items in your inner circle (circle of control) where you could be spending your time most productively.
This tool can be applied to almost any situation or feeling you’re experiencing. It can be an empowering way to manage your thoughts, feeling emotions and actions.
Thanks for reading!
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