Managing our worries in worrying times

<h5>What does the planes inflight safety briefing tell us about wellbeing&quest;<&sol;h5>&NewLine;<p>I want you to think about your last trip on a plane &lpar;sorry if I’ve reminded you of a cancelled holiday&excl;&rpar; As the plane moves off and you have the safety briefing… I want you to consider the part where they explain what to do if there is a decline in cabin pressure… &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Masks will drop from the ceiling&comma; put yours on before helping others&period;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Why are we instructed to put ours on first&quest; Well&comma; because of the importance of making sure you look after yourself&period; These unprecedented times we’re all living through now can be worrying and bring about feelings of anxiety and stress&period; News stories telling us of changes we must make about how we live our life or &lpar;let’s be honest&rpar; gossip and speculation&comma; can also unsettle us&period; Then there are also children to entertain&comma; work deadlines to meet&comma; and not forgetting studying to fit in&period; Is it any wonder that we might find ourselves feeling stressed and anxious&quest; So at times&comma; we need to find ways to put ourselves first to help manage these feelings&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Unfortunately&comma; when we get stressed our brain can work against us&period; Thoughts and feelings are not always rational as we apply emotive reasoning created out of the &OpenCurlyQuote;fight or flight’ response rather than logical thinking&period; We become &OpenCurlyQuote;hijacked’ in our thoughts and irrational thinking patterns can take over&period; We’ve all done this&period; Just think about when you have reflected on a situation and said to yourself&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Why did I do that&quest;”&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&lbrack;zombify&lowbar;post&rsqb;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

Neill Boddington
Neill is an Open University mental health advisor.