You’re just a mum now

<div class&equals;"fr-view"><p><strong>The following piece was awarded First Prize in the OU Students Association Welcome Week Writing Competition for Welcome Week 2024 &lpar;28 Sept &ndash&semi; 6 Oct&rpar;&period; The author is Sarah&comma; who lives in Middlesbrough and is studying MSC<span data-olk-copy-source&equals;"MessageBody">&nbsp&semi;Psychology &period;<&sol;span><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong><&sol;strong><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><span data-olk-copy-source&equals;"MessageBody">You&rsquo&semi;re just a mum now&comma; that&rsquo&semi;s all you are&period; Those beautiful little people you created are now your soul&period; All of you&period; Your name replaced with &hellip&semi;mum&comma; stored in a phone with a million other play dates&period; Your emails plagued with requests for another &pound&semi;1 coin&comma; a costume last minute&comma; 20&comma;000 toilet roll middles&period; The school runs&comma; being the nurse&comma; the teacher&comma; the referee&period; You blink and six years have gone by and that &lsquo&semi;few months&rsquo&semi; you expected of not putting yourself even 17th let alone first has expanded and continued&period; You don&rsquo&semi;t really know who &lsquo&semi;you&rsquo&semi; is beyond the snot wiping and cuddles&period; So you start to explore the idea&comma; and most things seem impossible&comma; to continue to be &lsquo&semi;Mum&rsquo&semi; and work enough to feed and clothe your little gremlins is a juggling act a clown couldn&rsquo&semi;t maintain&period; Then you find something you can do that with some acrobatic and flexing that brings just a small amount of &lsquo&semi;you&rsquo&semi; back&excl; My children will always be my world but my masters course has just opened up my universe to be that little bit bigger&period;<&sol;span><&sol;p>&NewLine;<div id&equals;"zfWrap">&NewLine;&Tab;&Tab;&NewLine; <&sol;div>&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;&NewLine;<&sol;div>