From dreams to reality: becoming a nurse and educator

<p>If someone had told me 20 years ago that I would be sharing the story of my career development&comma; I would have burst out laughing&period; My name is Mel&colon; I’m 46 and mum to two children&period; Every day is a challenge and I feel like I am constantly juggling plates between work&comma; studying&comma; housework and being a mum&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I was talking to my mum about my childhood&comma; and discussing how busy our lives were&period; Like me&comma; she was a single mum who was working full-time and studying&period; She explained how every teacher described me as being &OpenCurlyQuote;a lovely&comma; kind and well-behaved little girl’ but how I was &OpenCurlyQuote;not an academic’&period; School was a massive challenge&comma; and I didn’t really understand what was going on&period; I had no confidence and became withdrawn and shy&period; I still cringe today at how little faith even my teachers had in me&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Luckily for me&comma; I didn’t listen&comma; and my mum pushed me to do the best I could&period; The problem was&comma; as a family&comma; we didn’t have the finances to afford private tutoring to enhance my education&period; I always dreamt of being a nurse but was always told I couldn’t because I was not clever enough&period; After leaving school with no GCSEs&comma; I had to work out how I was going to achieve my dream&period; Why was it so difficult&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I decided to go onto college and took a GNVQ Level 2 in Health and Social Care&comma; which was equivalent to two GCSEs&comma;&nbsp&semi;alongside my maths and English&period; This was a pivotal stage in my life as I was finally diagnosed with dyslexia and given the support and resources to get my thoughts down onto paper&period; It was a huge light bulb moment&comma; and suddenly all the dots were joined together&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>At this point&comma; I was awarded the &OpenCurlyQuote;Student of the Year’&period; This was the first time in my life I had been recognised for my hard work and resilience&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In 2003&comma; I worked as a Healthcare support worker in the Heart Department at my local hospital&period; Part of the stipulation for accepting this role was to study for my NVQ Level 3&period; With study support in place to accommodate my dyslexia&comma; I successfully passed&period; However&comma; I would still look at the nurses in their scrubs and wished that would be me one day&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The hospital started to work in partnership with the OU&comma; advertising for healthcare support workers to apply for their Adult Nursing Diploma&period; I had been recommended for this programme and was successful in getting a place&period; I remember receiving the phone call from my line manager and screaming down the phone&period; I had just woken up from a night shift&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Panic set in again as I knew it wasn’t going to be easy&comma; but I was determined to get through it&period; At last&comma; my dream had finally come true&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The Open University provided me with the opportunity to study to become a nurse&comma; which I never thought was possible&period; The brick university route of education is expensive and this was never going to be an option for me&period; A more practical route of learning suited my personal needs&comma; allowed me to study and I had the knowledge of being supported by my employer and the OU&period; This gave me the flexibility to study&comma; while also working&period; I was provided with a network of support which included a mentor from the hospital and a Practice Tutor from the OU&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I successfully passed my Diploma in Adult Nursing&comma; and I became a Band 5 on the Nursing and Midwifery Council &lpar;NMC&rpar; register&period; I started work on the Heart ward&period; My dream had come true&comma; and it was all thanks to the OU&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Over time&comma; my love for nursing grew and I developed a love of teaching new students within the clinical area&comma; especially those who were still training&period; At this point&comma; I wanted to expand on my own career development&comma; so I applied to do my degree in nursing leadership&comma; through The Open University&comma; which I successfully completed in 2013&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Without sounding like a cliche&comma; The Open University opened my life to a career that everyone else said was not possible&period; The OU vision is &OpenCurlyQuote;to reach more students with learning that meets their needs and enriches society’&period; This resembled my pathway into nursing and paved a professional career that I always dreamed of&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Fast forward to 2018&comma; I was working in the Heart Rehabilitation team&comma; and I was&nbsp&semi;drawn to a Practice Tutor job advert from the OU&period; I remember thinking to myself&comma; &OpenCurlyQuote;This is the job I was born to do’&period; I was successful in gaining this position and was passionate about this role&comma; to the point that I resigned from the local Trust&comma; where I had been working for 20 years&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Now&comma; everyone has a phase in their life that pushes them to their limits&period; Mine happened three years ago&comma; when I had a sudden change in my personal life&period; I had to think creatively and consider how I could utilise my nursing skills and my love of teaching in a role that suited my new lifestyle&period; I know fairy godmothers only appear in Cinderella but once again the OU saved my life&excl; At this point in my life&comma; my boss Mags was my fairy godmother&period; Due to my own journey&comma; I can emphasise and have the time to listen&comma; mentor and do whatever I can to help students as they say &OpenCurlyQuote;I can’t do it&excl; I don’t understand&comma; I’m running out of time&excl;’<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Now I’m a Staff Tutor for the OU&period; Encouraged by my line manager&comma; I am studying for my Masters in Educational Leadership&period; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Oh my god&comma; here we go again&comma;” I thought to myself&period; I have a degree in nursing&comma; not education&comma; and now I have to learn a whole new field of teaching and leadership&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As The Open University clearly points out your &OpenCurlyQuote;Future is Open’&period; How true that is&excl; The OU gave me a future that potentially may not have happened if I had listened to my schoolteacher&period; Thank goodness I had the common sense to follow my dreams&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The OU &OpenCurlyQuote;aims to inspire’ – it has done and continues to do so for me&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>And they &OpenCurlyQuote;enable learning’&period; Well&comma; if I am&nbsp&semi;not an advocate for that&comma; who is&quest; I have been the apprentice student&period; I have been the mentor&sol;practice assessor within the clinical area&period; I have been the Practice Tutor &lpar;and still am on a part-time role&rpar; and I now have the privilege of being a Staff Tutor&comma; overseeing all these roles&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Prior to the COVID-19 pandemic&comma; there used to be an advert on the TV about The Open University&period; Its final strapline stated &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;The Open University changes lives”&period; Every time the advert came on&comma; I used to say&comma; &OpenCurlyQuote;Yes it does&comma; thank you&excl;’<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>This article originally appeared on &OpenCurlyQuote;OpenLearn’ on the Open University website&period;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&lbrack;zombify&lowbar;post&rsqb;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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